Nope NOT yOu

Beauty inclusively exclusive! 

This generation, which takes pride in what they refer to as inclusivity, is the one that transformed the definition of beauty by accepting and embracing EVERYONE. What a wonderful generation!

This generation has not altered the definition of beauty nor made it as inclusive as many may think. While previous generations understood what beauty was, and they too went through seasonal changes, it was always exclusive. This generation, on the other hand, has taken a different path and included more diversity, which may be why it is seen as the ideal generation.

To be truthful, everyone has attempted to define beauty, and there have always been many perspectives on what it is. Having a big belly was in at one point. Boyish shapes were in right now, but this generation is different because these stylish bodies were combined with no other kind.


The ideal of beauty in the last 10 or so years has been characterized by thin ladies who don't have butts or busts. Though everyone is welcome to compete in beauty pageants these days, even this inclusive and idealistic generation has its exclusives. 

 Dark Skin Girls

For the majority, the idea that dark-skinned girls might one day be invited to the beauty party was just a pipe dream. Today, however, the door is wide open to a small number of people. The rest of the dark-skinned girls who are not necessarily tall, slim, and have a certain dark complexion are not beautiful enough; normal-looking (not exotic, for want of a better word) girls with dark skin will still face colorism, but those with strong features and a distant complexion will have a place in the beauty room. Dark-skinned girls who are considered beautiful must have strong features, artistic features. 

Thick Girls 

The term "thick," which refers to a body that is neither fat nor slim but rather just right, was coined by body positivism. This led to celebrities like Rihanna and Brandy changing their bodies from slim to thick, you know, just to be trendy. Girls with a moderate bust, slender belly, and extremely wide hips and butts are considered thick. For the rest of us, who might not have these exact proportions, we are simply fat. However, fat also has a place in this world called plus size.

Plus size Girls 

One of the things that was unimaginable a few years ago is that plus size ladies are now not just modeling but also stylists, bloggers, vloggers, and listen to plus size everything. This new phenomenon has swept the fashion business by storm—the type of storm you adore. What is the ideal plus size, though, since even in the plus size community, you have to fit into a specific size range to avoid being grossly overweight? To put it simply, "thick" in a thicker sense. 

Every woman on the planet should be the epitome of beauty, but this is impossible because the media, which plays a major role in dictating to women what constitutes acceptable beauty on a daily basis, sets the standards for what constitutes beauty. The ideal woman of today appears in prominent roles in TV shows, music videos, movies, and magazines; she is not only tall and thin but also thick, dark, and plus size. Because people want perfection in appearance, girls and women are driven to undergo cosmetic surgery in order to meet these new standards, and those who are unable to do so end up alone on the lonely long road. Suffering road of lowself-esteemm, and the effects are limitless.

While it may seem that perfection is the only thing that defines beauty, this age has only ever charged one thing: inclusivity. This is what the previous generation failed to achieve. I hope that the future generation will value individuality, diversity, and unique personalities over a standard of beauty that applies to all girls and women. 

  Am not beautiful because of whoever said so Am beautiful because I know so!